Independence and New Surprises in a Successful Relationship
Independence and New Surprises in a Successful Relationship by Terry Leslie
It is really important that you check in with yourself every now and then and make sure that you are presenting an accurate picture of yourself to those around you. If you start becoming too predictable, too stereotypical, women start to lose what interest they have in you. Don't be afraid to show up with a few little surprises here and there. Most of all don't be surprised when she gets really turned when you change it up on her a little bit.
I am not talking a total and complete make over. I am simply talking about opting to be genuinely unique as you are. Stop paying attention to the rules of conduct that are governed by your clothing or the type of car you drive. Be a totally independent man.
Being an independent man means making decisions that completely work for you. Some women find a little too much independence a turn off. For instance if you've been dating for six or seven months and things seem to be heading in the direction of long term serious commitment and you turn around and quit your job without notice and decide that the two of you are moving to Tahiti, you might throw her off a little bit.
However, if you have decided to change careers or you decide to break out of all your old habits and start new ones without becoming a completely different person overnight, she really might find that you are keeping it seriously interesting.
The biggest trouble men have with who they are is trying too hard to follow all of the rules that have been laid out for them. The sensible guy isn't supposed to get spontaneous and the bad boy isn't supposed to settle down and get a real job. These are most definitely presumptuous thoughts and invitations for complete dismantling. And I would encourage you to dismantle away.
By being independent and offering up your own unique view of the world and how you fit into it, you are able to keep things moving in a new and enlightening direction. Women won't get bored with you.
When a woman gets bored with you it basically means that you have become too predictable. You are not adding an element of excitement to her life, which is vital for everyone who really wants to experience being alive.
Chances are that before any woman ever announces that she has become bored with you that you have become bored with yourself. You have been sporting the same haircut for how long now and you have been performing the same identical daily routine for how long? When was the last time you really challenged yourself? When was the last time you took a lot of big risks and enjoyed the thrill of it all? It can be really easy to get locked into that safety of familiarity. When we stop challenging ourselves we stop growing. And when we stop growing those around us become rather bored with us.
Sometimes it is just as important to step out there and take a risk with yourself as it is to take a risk in order to get a woman's phone number. You are not an automatic machine with a preprogrammed future. You are in control of your life and getting on the stick and deciding to shake things up a bit keeps you more engaged, more present, and most definitely more in demand.
Being interested in the world way beyond your window is part of being an engaged member of the world. Visit places and learn new things. Develop an attitude of restlessness and spiritedness. These attitudes will save you from the doldrums of self boredom which in turn save you from the boredom of women.
When a woman can count on you to enhance her life, to make her crave new things and new experiences, and to be there when the world decides to hand over a little bit of unfairness, then a woman can count on you to be the one she wants to fall in love with. It can take her a long time to determine that you have what it takes to fill the shoes of being her guy, but once you're there you are in for the ride of your life.
If you have found my article interesting, I have come across a site which is at the moment giving away a massive free Book titled Secrets To Dating Beautiful Women. I have personally found this one of the best books on the subject of Dating and Relationships and I highly recommend you read it. It's a must read.
Download it from;
www.secrets2datingsuccess.com
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It is really important that you check in with yourself every now and then and make sure that you are presenting an accurate picture of yourself to those around you. If you start becoming too predictable, too stereotypical, women start to lose what interest they have in you. Don't be afraid to show up with a few little surprises here and there. Most of all don't be surprised when she gets really turned when you change it up on her a little bit.
I am not talking a total and complete make over. I am simply talking about opting to be genuinely unique as you are. Stop paying attention to the rules of conduct that are governed by your clothing or the type of car you drive. Be a totally independent man.
Being an independent man means making decisions that completely work for you. Some women find a little too much independence a turn off. For instance if you've been dating for six or seven months and things seem to be heading in the direction of long term serious commitment and you turn around and quit your job without notice and decide that the two of you are moving to Tahiti, you might throw her off a little bit.
However, if you have decided to change careers or you decide to break out of all your old habits and start new ones without becoming a completely different person overnight, she really might find that you are keeping it seriously interesting.
The biggest trouble men have with who they are is trying too hard to follow all of the rules that have been laid out for them. The sensible guy isn't supposed to get spontaneous and the bad boy isn't supposed to settle down and get a real job. These are most definitely presumptuous thoughts and invitations for complete dismantling. And I would encourage you to dismantle away.
By being independent and offering up your own unique view of the world and how you fit into it, you are able to keep things moving in a new and enlightening direction. Women won't get bored with you.
When a woman gets bored with you it basically means that you have become too predictable. You are not adding an element of excitement to her life, which is vital for everyone who really wants to experience being alive.
Chances are that before any woman ever announces that she has become bored with you that you have become bored with yourself. You have been sporting the same haircut for how long now and you have been performing the same identical daily routine for how long? When was the last time you really challenged yourself? When was the last time you took a lot of big risks and enjoyed the thrill of it all? It can be really easy to get locked into that safety of familiarity. When we stop challenging ourselves we stop growing. And when we stop growing those around us become rather bored with us.
Sometimes it is just as important to step out there and take a risk with yourself as it is to take a risk in order to get a woman's phone number. You are not an automatic machine with a preprogrammed future. You are in control of your life and getting on the stick and deciding to shake things up a bit keeps you more engaged, more present, and most definitely more in demand.
Being interested in the world way beyond your window is part of being an engaged member of the world. Visit places and learn new things. Develop an attitude of restlessness and spiritedness. These attitudes will save you from the doldrums of self boredom which in turn save you from the boredom of women.
When a woman can count on you to enhance her life, to make her crave new things and new experiences, and to be there when the world decides to hand over a little bit of unfairness, then a woman can count on you to be the one she wants to fall in love with. It can take her a long time to determine that you have what it takes to fill the shoes of being her guy, but once you're there you are in for the ride of your life.
If you have found my article interesting, I have come across a site which is at the moment giving away a massive free Book titled Secrets To Dating Beautiful Women. I have personally found this one of the best books on the subject of Dating and Relationships and I highly recommend you read it. It's a must read.
Download it from;
www.secrets2datingsuccess.com
Article Source: http://articles.directorygold.com
For more articles on Relationships visit the DirectoryGold Article Directory
For links to sites on Relationships visit the DirectoryGold Web Directory
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